Hey girls :) we're going to talk about the different type of heels there is. If that doesn't work and he becomes worst than before and nothing else works, it's time to break free. Try to explain to him gently that you need your own personal time and assure him now and then that you love him just the same. However, if your partner is a Green eye Monster then you must be patient with him. Let them be themselves and they will come back to you. Girls, if you do realize by now, holding on tighter to a guy will only scare them away. Maybe cause he's so handsome and you don't think you're pretty, or that you feel that you're not attractive and he's the only guy that will be that perfect and never want to let him go. Your insecurity might be due to lack of self confidence. Wait! Before you go about thinking there's no cure and you're doom, the most important thing is recognizing the signs. Both events lead to the same consequences. All the time you have will be used digging out info from your partner, checking through their phones and suspecting them of cheating on you. Vice versa, if you're the one being the GEM, you'll make your partner life miserable as well as yours. Your movement will be limited and soon you'll be devoid of social life. He would not make you feel secure as every act of yours, even going out with your girlfriends will be scrutinised. If you are on the receiving end of the GEM, you'll be miserable and scared. However, if you start calling him 20 times a day just to check his whereabouts and texting him every few seconds asking him what he's doing at that instance, you might be in the category of the GEMs.īeing a GEM and living with one, is two different yet the same thing. As much as we girls want to feel the romance we first felt during the months of courtship throughout our lives, there's a high chance that you might not want to keep that expectations to high. It is common to be plague by questions like this as always, the first few months of courtship will be both exciting and enticing, but what is left after that will be sustained by Patience, endurance, commitment and love alone. "Why hasn't he call me?" "Is he seeing someone else?" "He sounds different today?" Questions will start popping up in both your minds. However in time, when the first flush of romance slows down and both of you begin to fall into your usual routine before you were a couple, a tugging feeling will ensue. Wanting to be near your partner and be part of whatever he is doing is common, especially when yours is a young budding love. These people are known as the Green Eye Monsters or in short, GEMs. Well, I'm not talking about the sparkling gem you're about to dig out from the earth, I'm talking about the more prominent gems in our lives, someone that you might have met and fall in love with and soon, everything revolves around that one person, until they begin to obsessively stalk you.
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